dashboard, status API and notifications tell apex domains from hostnames (closes #224)

An apex domain's own records are still saved with the hostnames'
records, under the domain's name, so the port and TLS checks find its
addresses. Notifications about them now start `Domain:`, decided by the
configured domains. The dashboard and /api/v1/status, which read only
the saved state, take a hostname entry whose name also has a domain
entry as that domain's own records: the dashboard shows them in a second
table under Domains, the API in the domain's `recordsByNameserver`, and
neither lists or counts them as hostnames. The startup notification
counts domains and hostnames from the configuration. README says which
of a domain's own records are watched and how their changes are
notified.

Model: opus-5-5

TODO.md

@@ -19,6 +19,8 @@ trial run of the finished image: https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/dnswatcher/issues/149
 
 # Completed Steps
 
+- 2026-10-02: an apex domain is not counted or listed as a hostname; its records
+  show under Domains, and notifications about them say `Domain:` (closes #224).
 - 2026-10-02: the dashboard lists each nameserver's record types in one fixed
   order, the README's, then any other type, not a random one (closes #226).
 - 2026-10-02: the dashboard and `/api/v1/status` show why a nameserver query or